34 Life Lessons

This year I had an idea, instead of my birthday being about me, what if I made it about others and holy GAME changer y’all. I don’t like attention, shocker I know, but it makes me hella awkward if people sing or look at me 😂 But I’m usually a fan of the gifts and spoiling. But this year I made it for others and it felt so good. We surprised one of my besties for her 40th and I decided since it was my birthday I should do something for the woman who actually birthed me so I showed up at my moms doorstep with flowers and said “thanks for creating me” to which she replied “we did have fun making you” 🤢🤮 but that’s rather here nor there. It’s no wonder I’m inappropriate, it’s in my DNA 😂 I decided to give y’all some advice and tips from my 34 trips around the sun. Here goes:⁣
1. Kindness is FREE⁣⁣
2. Your mess is your message ⁣⁣
3. Drink more water ⁣⁣
4. You’re ALWAYS enough ⁣⁣
5. Stop ignoring 🚩 red flags ⁣⁣
6. If you’re unhappy, it’s on YOU.⁣⁣
7. Dump the douchebag ⁣⁣
8. Dive deeper into your faith.⁣⁣
9. Stop gossiping, it’s toxic⁣⁣
10. Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Let it go.⁣⁣
11. Comparison is the thief of joy ⁣⁣
12. Have the dessert ⁣⁣
13. Stop restricting foods you love ⁣⁣
14. Happiness isn’t found in a size, weight, purse or house. ⁣⁣
15. Brene Brown is LIFE 🦄 ⁣⁣
16. ✌️ to backstabbers and haters ⁣⁣
17. Love yourself first ⁣⁣
18. Don’t text and drive ⁣⁣
20. Set an alarm for 3x a day that says “breathe” ⁣⁣and actually do it when it goes off.
21. The laundry can wait ⁣⁣
22. Push through fear. ⁣⁣
23. Find the 🌈 in every situation ⁣⁣
24. Life will kick your ass, a lot. ⁣⁣
25. Do scary things ⁣⁣
26. Hurt people HURT people ⁣⁣
27. Swerve constantly ⁣⁣
28. Thank your past ⁣⁣
29. There’s nothing country music can’t fix⁣⁣
30. Quality over quantity always ⁣⁣
31. Never stop learning ⁣⁣
32. Enjoy being ALONE⁣⁣
33. Nothing changes IF nothing changes. ⁣⁣
34. Whatever you’re not changing, you’re choosing. ⁣⁣